As adults we know the saying “you are what you eat”, but it is not until we become parents that the saying broadens to “your family is what YOU eat”. Frightening, I know. The quick bite to eat at the drive through when running late, the habitual bowl of ice cream at night and the ever nutritious cup of coffee (and if you only have one, you’re good) to start the day off become imprints on our children’s’ impressionable minds of what being “healthy” really is.
I pride myself on being up to date on nutrition for my children. They have been given a largely organic, low sugar, whole wheat diet from birth. My biggest frustration as a parent is their lack of, let’s call it “enthusiasm” for vegetables. It has been a source of frustration every evening for the past four and a half years. I’ve bribed, overly praised, made fun veggie kabobs, and even resorted to hiding veggies through puree in their foods only to find myself slowly giving up at times. It was not until recently that I looked around our evening table to discover the leaders of our tribe, my husband and I, were falling short in the “health” department too. We have three children under five, my husband works a demanding job and I stay home to do pretty much everything. (There are my excuses) Even with all that said what WE eat as a family effect every waking hour of our lives. This is too important to say there is not enough time in the day.
My husband decided to begin the clear path detox program with his main goal being weight loss. The wonderful, supportive wife I am (I am smiling while I write this) served foods he could enjoy on the detox which included mainly veggies, fruits and whole grains. I was embarrassed when our daughter, who is four years old, says the first night “Why are you eating that”? Are you kidding me? Whole, nutritious foods cause alarm in our children, but Mc Donald’s was perfectly normal? This only added fuel to our fire. I have to say my husband is doing awesome on the program. He is down over fifteen pounds (in just a few weeks), feels more energized and really thinking about what he puts into his body. The best part is about a week into the program my children were getting excited about these wonderful, nutritious foods and adding new veggies to their diet. I was shocked and a little speechless. No coercing or bribes, just leadership and being a good example!
Parenthood is a noble calling when done right. I always joke that I knew the answer to everything until the day our first born arrived and the moment she looked at me I realized I didn’t know much at all. What I have learned so far is that the solution to most problems is less complicated than it seems. If nutrition is something that keeps your parental brain awake at night simply add color to your plate. Show your crew how enjoyable REAL food can be and take inventory of what you consume because the apple literally does not fall far from the tree.
Motherly Moments- Alexis, Chiropractic Assistant